A question for the ladies..................

[Renegade Master]

When yous are seeing sum1 and another lad tries to get into you, why do yous not tell ya lad about it? Usually he finds out eventually and it makes you look guilty when it all comes out. Surely there wud be a lot more trust in ya relationship if ya told him things like that. Obviously if ya out with ya pals in the drink then random lads are gona try and get into ya but if its someone they know then you shud tell them i reckon.

Am askin this cos me pal at work read his lasses messages last nite and found out a lad he knows has been textin her, he doesn't think she's been going behind his back but because she never told him he's lost sum of the trust he had in her. Something similar has happened to me before as well so I was wonderin wot the crack was.

[DJ TWIN DEE 06]

My Lass Tells Me All The Time Coz She Cannit Look Me In The Eye Nd Lie:7542:

[SPOONIE]

happened 2 me a lot rossi, a dont understand why they dont just tell u, usually they play dumb and deny it tho even tho they know.
it's probs 2 avoid an argument but at the end of the day when u find out of sum1 else its worse coz theres nout worse than ya lass hidin stuff from ya.

my ex used 2 say the txts on her fone from lads were just mates lol what a mug a was.

[Sumit Mad]

Its happened to me before, was txtin me lass and she says 'am tired, goin to sleep' or sumit like that, about 40mins later got a text sayin 'who do you think i am mr. swales' and considering I'm Mr. Murphy I felt pretty pissed off, why couldnt she just tell me she was texting a mate instead of lying? I'm one of those people who doesnt care who she talks to (lad lass or other!) so wouldnt even think twice if sha says am txtin this lad...

Since then a lost trust, and the shit hit the fan really, arguing every week or so about stupid stuff, finished now

[Renegade Master]

Getting a canny poor response form all the buzz girls considering the question was aimed at them.

[Sumit Mad]

Getting a canny poor response form all the buzz girls considering the question was aimed at them.

Girls are all the same man! They all feel crap and cant explain therselves so they wont comment!

My opinion haha

[rave scene]

dont care hu mi lass talks 2 me lyk long as shes nt gerrin of wid sum 1

[rave scene]

am guna ask mi lass bowt that lyk rossi

[Master Ov Ceramonies]

When yous are seeing sum1 and another lad tries to get into you, why do yous not tell ya lad about it? Usually he finds out eventually and it makes you look guilty when it all comes out. Surely there wud be a lot more trust in ya relationship if ya told him things like that. Obviously if ya out with ya pals in the drink then random lads are gona try and get into ya but if its someone they know then you shud tell them i reckon.

Am askin this cos me pal at work read his lasses messages last nite and found out a lad he knows has been textin her, he doesn't think she's been going behind his back but because she never told him he's lost sum of the trust he had in her. Something similar has happened to me before as well so I was wonderin wot the crack was.






welcome bk to the world of relationships rosssi , did u book the exec suite , .....stayin long hahahaha




its all torture , no wat relationships are 99% of time , well way i see it , its like a live x box step inside game were once the arguement is on , thts it were of with the lyrical grand prix tennis champoinship to see who can keep the answers cumin , its mad man , cant live with , cant live without , pure gary D'd

[Renegade Master]

welcome bk to the world of relationships rosssi , did u book the exec suite , .....stayin long hahahaha
Its not me mate av got nee relationships on the go am too sensible haha.

Its me pal he's been goin on about it since 7.30 this mornin and my head is fuckin battered - i need sum sort of explanation quickly!

[Hollie Gardner!]

SUM LADS IF U TELL THEM DONT BELIEVE U WEN U SAY U NEVER GOT INTO THEM THO LIKE UL SAY SUM LAD TRIED TO GET INTO IS OR WOTEVER N THERE LIKE AYE RITE N U NEVER DONE OUT :s BIT MADDD
CANT SAY AV LIED LIKE THT TO A LAD BEFORE LIKE RATHER TEL THEM AND IF THEY DIDNT BELIEVE IS THEN MERRRR TO THEM HAHA BUT AM SINGLE SO LIFE IS SMOOTH AND HASSLE FREE LOL

[Rachel-M]

its cos we na nouts gna come out of it an all lads do the same thing all the time wen ya meetin sumone. we just dont see any point in tellin yas half the time cos it will cause a stew over nout. ano where ya cumin frm like. most lads just beat it wen ya ova the town wen they try an get into buh ya tell em ya got a lad, but wen its sum1 ya naa well, a think most lasses r worried if ya do tell ya lad..ther mate is just gna turn it all round on u an ya made out to be a lil rat. buh mosta the time we dont say fuck all cos after a while they just give up.

[CHELL]

i tell my lad everything, never got nwt 2 hide n never will

why dont lads ever tell us lasses wen a lass is tryin it on with them .. iv never had a lad say this lass n that lass has been tryin it on

im always gettin telt stuff n finding shit out n all i get is think what ya lk .. dnt ya trust me lk n so on

no win situation in my eyes n id say it gets 2 a certin point n ya go with either trustin them or ya gut feelin n live with whateva u decide

[rave scene]

lyk if he dont trust a wy is he goin out cz its hard avin a relation ship wid out trust nt sayin get rid r ouht bt he shud trust a lyk

[CHELL]

i hate all this well ya either trust me or not .. ana trust is a big part in relationships but theres more 2 it than just trustin sum1

[rave scene]

i hate all this well ya either trust me or not .. ana trust is a big part in relationships but theres more 2 it than just trustin sum1

agree dno if am trusted hope i am lyk bt a js felt bad cz a didnt help so a js sed sumet

[Jonny Lambe]

When yous are seeing sum1 and another lad tries to get into you, why do yous not tell ya lad about it? Usually he finds out eventually and it makes you look guilty when it all comes out. Surely there wud be a lot more trust in ya relationship if ya told him things like that. Obviously if ya out with ya pals in the drink then random lads are gona try and get into ya but if its someone they know then you shud tell them i reckon.

Am askin this cos me pal at work read his lasses messages last nite and found out a lad he knows has been textin her, he doesn't think she's been going behind his back but because she never told him he's lost sum of the trust he had in her. Something similar has happened to me before as well so I was wonderin wot the crack was.
well the obvious answer would be cos if she'd told him its guna cause a lot of shit between him n his mate n she might come out lookin worse than his mate so maybe she just thought she would just say nowt then the other lad would probably stop textin her after a bit n it'd just get forgotten about.

[Renegade Master]

well the obvious answer would be cos if she'd told him its guna cause a lot of shit between him n his mate n she might come out lookin worse than his mate so maybe she just thought she would just say nowt then the other lad would probably stop textin her after a bit n it'd just get forgotten about.
The lad isn't even his mate, just someone he knows and he says he wud have well believed his lass over him.

[Jonny Lambe]

The lad isn't even his mate, just someone he knows and he says he wud have well believed his lass over him.
well thats probably worse then lol. they would of probably ended up fightin or summat. well i know thats what would happen if some1 i knew started textin my lass

ya cant go mowin another guys lawn haha

[Renegade Master]

But surely she wud rather see him have a fight with the lad than argue with each other.

[Jonny Lambe]

But surely she wud rather see him have a fight with the lad than argue with each other.
doubt it like, lasses hate lads fightin, well most anyway lol

plus she probably thought he would never find out about it so that way the lad wouldnt get in a fight and they wouldnt argue either

anyway fuck knows im not a lass haha

[Budaplatinum]

mate they all the same wheni it comes to things like that
there must think are, 'what there dont no wont hert them,'
wey im a jelious mofo mofofucker, and shall seek vengance
on there 2faced ass's. j/k

the slying about that is. not that its ever happened tome,
but ive saw it loads of times, and no exactly what ya on about.

[Budaplatinum]

highly annoying lyk aint it :/

[Renegade Master]

jonny i was starting to think you were there for a minute lol!

[Budaplatinum]

.................lol

just crawed out of bed, so fuck na's what im on about

[Jonny Lambe]

i was starting to think you were for a minute there lol!
nowt wrong with bein in touch with ya feminime side mate hahahaha :32:

[StephMissChief]

i tell my lad EVERYTHING lol, even show him me phone if av had txts off lads, or if av bin out n sum lads tried t chat iz up al tell my lad all about it lol, cos ive got nowt t hide n ad neva think twice about persuin anything wi any of em so al tell me lad strate away................... thing is tho he neva tells me,thats t problem lol ... n wonders y a get para haha least im honest hehehe :8856:

not always us lasses haha, u men r a millions times worse haha .. well imo in this arguement yas r

[CHELL]

the way i see it is ..

the lass got a msg off another lad, hasnt said anything 2 her bf about it coz thats lk sort ov an invite 4 trouble ... eeee luk bob, frank sent me this txt msg bla bla bla .. so that gets bob all fired up coz he doesnt lk whats in the txt or coz its another lad .. tkaes it the wrong way or wateva n then all hell breaks out

the lass only sees the lad as a mate n doesnt want any conflict between her mate and bf n is just tryin2 keep the peace

ppl say there neva totally honest in relationships coz what ya dnt know canit hurt ya .. thats what luks lk it happenin here

just depends on what type ov ppl r involved 4 the whole bkground tho .. her bf cud be dead jealous n ova pretective so thats why she hasnt said out .. cud b alot ov reasons but thts just my view on it

[StephMissChief]

they quick t accuse u of summic tho even if ye show em wot t lads bin sayin but its ok for them t go sneakin round talkin t any mary jane n betty behind ye bk .............
a dont get it lol ............... :17432:

[Renegade Master]

but its ok for them t go sneakin round talkin t any mary jane n betty behind ye bk .............

Didnt know Shunksy had been gettin into Betty jackson like lol!

[StephMissChief]

Didnt know Shunksy had been gettin into Betty jackson like lol!

hehehe lucky guy

but tell ye m8, his lass shudda really told him bout txt'in tha lad, ther shud always be 100% trust to save any hassle, maybe thers nowt goin on ther but then again why t secrecy? it l always cause doubt in ye mind if ye lad/lass hides stuff from ya, its hard enuff bein in a relationship wivout havin thorts ye partner is up to summic :349:

[Renegade Master]

the way i see it is ..

the lass got a msg off another lad, hasnt said anything 2 her bf about it coz thats lk sort ov an invite 4 trouble ... eeee luk bob, frank sent me this txt msg bla bla bla .. so that gets bob all fired up coz he doesnt lk whats in the txt or coz its another lad .. tkaes it the wrong way or wateva n then all hell breaks out

the lass only sees the lad as a mate n doesnt want any conflict between her mate and bf n is just tryin2 keep the peace

ppl say there neva totally honest in relationships coz what ya dnt know canit hurt ya .. thats what luks lk it happenin here

just depends on what type ov ppl r involved 4 the whole bkground tho .. her bf cud be dead jealous n ova pretective so thats why she hasnt said out .. cud b alot ov reasons but thts just my view on it
Aye yav probs got it spot on there like Chell.

Me pal isnt really a jelous type so i dont know why she hasn't told him. Apparently she didnt want to cause trouble but Jamie isn't really a violent kid (i've worked with him for 4 years and cant remembering him ever having a fight) and he says he wud hav respected her for tellin him.

[Renegade Master]

hehehe lucky guy

but tell ye m8, his lass shudda really told him bout txt'in tha lad, ther shud always be 100% trust to save any hassle, maybe thers nowt goin on ther but then again why t secrecy? it l always cause doubt in ye mind if ye lad/lass hides stuff from ya, its hard enuff bein in a relationship wivout havin thorts ye partner is up to summic :349:
Totally agree with ya.

[StephMissChief]

Totally agree with ya.
the only thing al eva hide from shunks is t 'rolley stuff ' if we on rations haha :5008:
got a txt off sum lad askin if a was single yet lol, showed him it n gav n lawson started phonin t lad hahaha - hes neva txt bk lyk lol :541:

[DYNAMITE]

haha ii gav n lawson will scare the txts away like, bet the lads gutted that they have his number haha

[Jonny Lambe]

the only thing al eva hide from shunks is t 'rolley stuff ' if we on rations haha :5008:
got a txt off sum lad askin if a was single yet lol, showed him it n gav n lawson started phonin t lad hahaha - hes neva txt bk lyk lol :541:
cheeeeeky as fuck that when some1 asks ya lass if there still with ya grrrrrr

YEAH I AM NOW FUCK OFFFF!!!

[StephMissChief]

haha ii gav n lawson will scare the txts away like, bet the lads gutted that they have his number haha

nah it was off my phone haha ..................

thinks that bloody msn is more ov a worry than txt'n on phones lyk .... nasty place that is lol :349: cheaters paradise

[CHELL]

Aye yav probs got it spot on there like Chell.

Me pal isnt really a jelous type so i dont know why she hasn't told him. Apparently she didnt want to cause trouble but Jamie isn't really a violent kid (i've worked with him for 4 years and cant remembering him ever having a fight) and he says he wud hav respected her for tellin him.

aknow what ur saying about out ov respect tellin her bf about it .. but if its all incocent then she probs didnt feel the need too coz shes doin nothing wrong but on the other hand ppl dont tell there partners about this n that coz there is stuff 2 hide ... theirs always two parts 2 everything

i dont know what else 2 say, iv got loads ov examples i cud give n advice but there all 2 do with me currant relationship lol n ana wiv purdy bein an mc sum ppl will buzz off the fact that iv said sumthing n the txt msgs will start n so on lol

but ppl say well if ya trust ya partner 100% then ovb nwts in it but ud b a fool not 2 question it

in my past experiences .. go with ya gut feelin coz ya always right n the truth always cums out in the end, no matta how long it takes

[StephMissChief]

cheeeeeky as fuck that when some1 asks ya lass if there still with ya grrrrrr

YEAH I AM NOW FUCK OFFFF!!!

hahaha terrible aint it lol, a didnt even know who he was till ad tortured him for a bit n he told is who he was ............. jus take t piss outta em me lol, get wrong for encouragin em .... shudnt b cheeky tho shud they haha :8856:

[CHELL]

hehehe lucky guy

but tell ye m8, his lass shudda really told him bout txt'in tha lad, ther shud always be 100% trust to save any hassle, maybe thers nowt goin on ther but then again why t secrecy? it l always cause doubt in ye mind if ye lad/lass hides stuff from ya, its hard enuff bein in a relationship wivout havin thorts ye partner is up to summic :349:

coz then the lass will say 2 save her lad from gettin upset n thinkin theres more 2 it .. save the hassle

whateva happens the ova party always finds an answer or an excuss lol

ppl think coz they keep things from each ova that ull neva find out but wen ya do its 10 times worse than rather tellin them in first place .. lies are the worst but it doesnt stop ppl from doin it

[StephMissChief]

in my past experiences .. go with ya gut feelin coz ya always right n the truth always cums out in the end, no matta how long it takes

yep no mata ow many lies ye get told ul always know deep down wot t truth is n yep chell it always cums out in t end, might aswel own up to wot uve done strate away instead ov lyin about it, causin arguements and then gettin caught out at t end ov t day anyway :349: a hate liars me rarrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrr ... y b that nasty n put ye partner thru loads upset wen ye lyin thru ye bloody teeth lol

[StephMissChief]

coz then the lass will say 2 save her lad from gettin upset n thinkin theres more 2 it .. save the hassle



haha ii but sayin that is jus a cover up i think, if i was mates wiv a lad n spoke regularly to him id tell dale, to save upset n hassle haha

its easy to b honest wiv ye lad/lass if uve nowt to hide, ppl who make things secret have a hidden agenda

[Jen_G]

it depends who it was, if it was sum1 who a knew well a problies wudnt say owt coz it was cause 2 much shit 4 evry1 n all the time my lad wud problies b thinkin rr well dus she actually like him bk

but if it was sum1 a hardly new but they new a had a lad a wud tell him

[CHELL]

hahahaha im keep :566: shut

[Omi]

My Lass Tells Me All The Time Coz She Cannit Look Me In The Eye Nd Lie:7542:

cockeyed is she

[Jen_G]

a remember a lass who used 2 go 2 skool with my lad had rang him, but he didnt tell me till ages after n i went offit accusin him of loads of shit.. but a wud hav dun the same if he told me straight away, coz am a jelous person so tellin sum ppl the truth strate away dusnt nesiserally do u any gud

[Linzy]

for starters ya wudnt want ya lad fighting wiv sum 1 owa it lol but na a tell my lad everything so its sweet

[Box Office]

aye a rekn the lass was tryn to keep the piece with her m8 and lad,she wouldnt want her m8 being hurt, and 100 percent not her lad so why both,also she might of new there would off been a kick off,and when there would be a kick off she would get caught up into it and look a right cunt...especially if 2 lads were fightin over her

only other explanation is m8,she didnt want it out in the open so that other things come out from that man for her grassing him up!e.g she was actuall cheatin or shit,hope not for ya pals sake renegade brigade!

[Omi]

a remember a lass who used 2 go 2 skool with my lad had rang him, but he didnt tell me till ages after n i went offit accusin him of loads of shit.. but a wud hav dun the same if he told me straight away, coz am a jelous person so tellin sum ppl the truth strate away dusnt nesiserally do u any gud

ad be the same me like

am so unnesaserily jealous haha

[jen.t]

When yous are seeing sum1 and another lad tries to get into you, why do yous not tell ya lad about it? Usually he finds out eventually and it makes you look guilty when it all comes out. Surely there wud be a lot more trust in ya relationship if ya told him things like that. Obviously if ya out with ya pals in the drink then random lads are gona try and get into ya but if its someone they know then you shud tell them i reckon.

im dead honest me id tell ma lad if some random was trying t get into me but yet agen av told em before n av been sent on the silent treatment mode for a few hours gettin blanked coz av been honest. must just meet possesive lads haha. but if you lads wer gettin chatted up by some random lass would ya go home n tell ye lass???????????

[Linzy]

im dead honest me id tell ma lad if some random was trying t get into me but yet agen av told em before n av been sent on the silent treatment mode for a few hours gettin blanked coz av been honest. must just meet possesive lads haha. but if you lads wer gettin chatted up by some random lass would ya go home n tell ye lass???????????

exactly jen wud they fuk tell us lol

[jen.t]

ad be the same me like

am so unnesaserily jealous haha


jealouse asssss haha

no point in being jealouse like doesnt get ye anywere...a wouldnt dare be the jealouse type me n if it come to the point were a was being jealouse then id av t finish me it coz its only gunna get worse n i know id blag ma own head lolol

[CHELL]

a reakin the lads dont tell lasses about them gettin chatted up is coz they secretly enjoy it .. only time me lad eva cums bk n tells me things is about head blags

[DiCka]

happened 2 me a lot rossi, a dont understand why they dont just tell u, usually they play dumb and deny it tho even tho they know.
it's probs 2 avoid an argument but at the end of the day when u find out of sum1 else its worse coz theres nout worse than ya lass hidin stuff from ya.

my ex used 2 say the txts on her fone from lads were just mates lol what a mug a was.

spoonie uve just hit the nail on the head there m8 a was thinkin how many fuckin lads have u got as m8s to my lass gets me foaminnnn

[Renegade Master]

a reakin the lads dont tell lasses about them gettin chatted up is coz they secretly enjoy it ..

Eeee Chell how cum u didnt give that as one of the reasons lasses dont tell lads???
Soz like but you've just dropped the female race in the shit there haha!
If you think about it, its usually lads who make the first move so i reckon when you's go out yous get a lot more lads approaching you than wot we get lasses approaching us.

[Jade*Cue]

When yous are seeing sum1 and another lad tries to get into you, why do yous not tell ya lad about it? Usually he finds out eventually and it makes you look guilty when it all comes out. Surely there wud be a lot more trust in ya relationship if ya told him things like that. Obviously if ya out with ya pals in the drink then random lads are gona try and get into ya but if its someone they know then you shud tell them i reckon.

Am askin this cos me pal at work read his lasses messages last nite and found out a lad he knows has been textin her, he doesn't think she's been going behind his back but because she never told him he's lost sum of the trust he had in her. Something similar has happened to me before as well so I was wonderin wot the crack was.
In my past relationships i didnt say owt incase the lad got skitzy owa it and thort i was gettin in2 sum1 but every time sum1 trys it i do tel my lad makes it easier.am not gona lie and say that u dont get flattered cos ya do

[KAYLEY*S]

i hav n wud tell me lad if sum one eva sed out to me, dnt see the problem, cos i aint dun nout rong, and he neva kicked off or started getin paranoid, so am not worried bout tellin im, cos a no a wudnt get an ear ful or cause shit

but a can understand y sum lasses might not want to tell ther lad, if he did start gettin paranoid.... n everytime ya went out he starts finkin ya gettin into ppl..... but i just reckon if ya not goin out n flirtin wif ppl n attractin attention on purpose, then thers no harm in tellin ya lad, cos it aint ur fault.... n if he starts actin daft, just tell im to shut up

my lad wen on his hols, n they met a group off lasses..... n i cud of sat at home rippin me hair out (and i fink he fort i wud of been lol) finkin he was gettin into lasses or they wer tryin to get into him. But i neva n if sum one did try a dnt care, as long as he neva caused it or was being a norty boy haha... cos a trust him n i cnt b arsed to batter me own head with paranoia

if ya's trust each other then ther shudnt b a problem.... i'll just take it as a compliment if lasses find me lad attractive haha!

[CHELL]

Eeee Chell how cum u didnt give that as one of the reasons lasses dont tell lads???
Soz like but you've just dropped the female race in the shit there haha!
If you think about it, its usually lads who make the first move so i reckon when you's go out yous get a lot more lads approaching you than wot we get lasses approaching us.

so ur tellin me u lads dont lk female attention ? n thats why yaz hide things from partners or whoeva .. only thing most ppl wudnt even admit 2 it

n reason why i never give that as reason 4 lasses coz personaliy im happy with who i am with so it doesnt even interest me when sum1s tryin it on

aye were not all the same n most lasses probs luv the attention 2 but i was speakin from my personal opinion about it

n rossi u know yaself that lasses rnt scared these days 2 cum onto lads n u canit tell is other wise, iv seen stuff so im not just thinkin that way lol

[CHELL]

if ya's trust each other then ther shudnt b a problem.... i'll just take it as a compliment if lasses find me lad attractive haha!

aye but ye can trust ya lad but wen ova shit starts 2 happen n u find this n that or wateva .. ud b a fool not 2 question or think stuff

but wen ya do all ya get is ahh wats the point, ne point if ya dont trust me, then ya bk 2 square 1

[KAYLEY*S]

aye a suppose like..... aint cum to out like tht really, well nout av needed to ask questions bout.... fingers crossed it wont lol but a no a wud defo ask questions.... aslong as i had gud reason to tho

[Renegade Master]

so ur tellin me u lads dont lk female attention ? n thats why yaz hide things from partners or whoeva .. only thing most ppl wudnt even admit 2 it

n reason why i never give that as reason 4 lasses coz personaliy im happy with who i am with so it doesnt even interest me when sum1s tryin it on

aye were not all the same n most lasses probs luv the attention 2 but i was speakin from my personal opinion about it

n rossi u know yaself that lasses rnt scared these days 2 cum onto lads n u canit tell is other wise, iv seen stuff so im not just thinkin that way lol



Nar i didnt say we dont like the attention, i do myself but not wen av got a lass cos it complicates things and causes shit.

Aye a know lasses arent scared to approach lads but i was just saying if you and ya lad went out on the drink seperately then you wud defo get approached more than ya lad wud cos thats the way society works at the minute.

[Jade*Cue]

Nar i didnt say we dont like the attention, i do myself but not wen av got a lass cos it complicates things and causes shit.

Aye a know lasses arent scared to approach lads but i was just saying if you and ya lad went out on the drink seperately then you wud defo get approached more than ya lad wud cos thats the way society works at the minute.
I know where ya coming frm defnitly lasses do get approached more than lads like...if only my lad thort the same way i do!! buxtons a gud m8 so wen we txt n stuff i tel steven so he nars theres nowt goin on other day i found these msgs frm sum lass in his fone bein propa pally n tht then he sed hes known her frm bein 12 i wasnt bothered once i knew tht but i dont c why he didnt tel is b4 i found themm :9457:

[StephMissChief]

so ur tellin me u lads dont lk female attention ? n thats why yaz hide things from partners or whoeva .. only thing most ppl wudnt even admit 2 it

n reason why i never give that as reason 4 lasses coz personaliy im happy with who i am with so it doesnt even interest me when sum1s tryin it on

aye were not all the same n most lasses probs luv the attention 2 but i was speakin from my personal opinion about it

n rossi u know yaself that lasses rnt scared these days 2 cum onto lads n u canit tell is other wise, iv seen stuff so im not just thinkin that way lol



lads luv female attention n thats y they hide things from us lasses!! ye spot on ther chell chuck ... speakin from experience ive had battles wi woteva lad ive bin wi cos hes got upteen lasses chattin t him on txts or msn, not wantin t b his m8 but wantin t flirt on n he thinks hidin tha from us is a gd idea cos he liked t attention, wen if the same thing happened t me ad say no thanx lads keep ye dirty talk to yasel im happy wi my lad .... boils my piss this whole situation lol cos ive had me poor lil heart broken so many times cos lads cannit b happy wi t attention i giv em n think a daft flirt on wi whoteva lass wi a pulse decides t start talkin t them is worth a whole lot more than our relationship n hidin t fact jus makes it a whole lot worse cos ye find out daft little bits of info here n ther n then get the lad bare faced lyin to ya n kickin off cos ye accuse of him ov summic wen t whole time ye fukkin rite!!!!

thats y if ye av got a lass/lad m8 wen ye in a relationship n thers nowt goin on but friendship ye shud b honest wi ye partner cos the only reason ye wuud b hidin owt is cos ur up to no good ..... honesty is the best policy ... saves alot of worry n false accusations

[CHELL]

Nar i didnt say we dont like the attention, i do myself but not wen av got a lass cos it complicates things and causes shit.

Aye a know lasses arent scared to approach lads but i was just saying if you and ya lad went out on the drink seperately then you wud defo get approached more than ya lad wud cos thats the way society works at the minute.

aye ill admit i do get lads cumin onto me every time i go out on drink, even with a belly which i find canny sick .. lk ova week on boat this lad was tryin it on n linzy give him an ear bashin n these lads asked what was up n was gunna sort him out lol but i dont eva lap the attention up

but thats going out on the drink .. what about over the internet, msn n so on .. that brings alot ov attetion 4 u lads coz lasses rnt scared2 cum onto yaz on msn but when stuff lk that happens the lad keeps it a sercret n ull find sumthing out n theyll lie about it 2 cover it up, 4 it bein 2 protect feelins or wateva

its a nasty ball game wen ova ppl start2 get involved in relationships

[Amanda]

thats y if ye av got a lass/lad m8 wen ye in a relationship n thers nowt goin on but friendship ye shud b honest wi ye partner cos the only reason ye wuud b hidin owt is cos ur up to no good ..... honesty is the best policy ... saves alot of worry n false accusations

well said stephh:10001:

[CHELL]

thats y if ye av got a lass/lad m8 wen ye in a relationship n thers nowt goin on but friendship ye shud b honest wi ye partner cos the only reason ye wuud b hidin owt is cos ur up to no good ..... honesty is the best policy ... saves alot of worry n false accusations

defooo steph

its always gunna b a no win situation n if ya honest then thats the best thing ciz wrre always gunna hav a moan neways haha

but lies r the worst eva n theres alot ov them in relationships n its the lies that fuck everything up

ill admit ana im proba hard work but iv always said if lies werent in relationships then the problems wudnt b there but sum ppl canit really help it n if ya luv sum1 ye put up with wateva or its time2 move on

[StephMissChief]

defooo steph

its always gunna b a no win situation n if ya honest then thats the best thing ciz wrre always gunna hav a moan neways haha

but lies r the worst eva n theres alot ov them in relationships n its the lies that fuck everything up

ill admit ana im proba hard work but iv always said if lies werent in relationships then the problems wudnt b there but sum ppl canit really help it n if ya luv sum1 ye put up with wateva or its time2 move on


the only reason ye mite b hardwork chuck is if thers a seed planted in ye mind that ye bloke is upto no good .... u can always spot a liar, bein sneaky az fuck .... if they dint wanna put 100% into ya relationship n do everythin in ther power t be honest n reassure u that a female/male friend is only a friend, even lettin ye sit wi them while they talkin to 'said friend' on t phone or msn helps, then why bloody bother t be ye boyf/girlf in the fukkin 1st place lol?? wastin ther own time puttin up wi accusations n moaning wen obv they got a bloody que of lads/lasses waitin t fill ur shoes ...


honestly a cud rant away all day bout this whole thing ... a fukkin hate cheaters n liars cos its the most upsettin thing t deal wi .... ad rather lose a partner t death then havin t get over them cheatin on iz cos its the most painful thing ever :335:

[CHELL]

think the thing is every1s difo n does things in difo ways

if ya truely luv sum1 n really wanna b with them things always work out in the end

ppl always find out the truth in the end n ne matta how long it takes

n if them who r involved hav done out wrong, theyll pay 4 it in the future n hav 2 live with there mistakes

[CHELL]

heres a question 4 the lads

how many ov yaz r in relationships or hav been n never told a lass uve met or talkin2 on msn yaz have a partner ? n b seriousssssss n whys the reason 4 what eva ya answer is

lol

[StephMissChief]

heres a question 4 the lads

how many ov yaz r in relationships or hav been n never told a lass uve met or talkin2 on msn yaz have a partner ? n b seriousssssss n whys the reason 4 what eva ya answer is

lol

guess none ov yas can explain yasels haha :17432:

[Box Office]

heres a question 4 the lads

how many ov yaz r in relationships or hav been n never told a lass uve met or talkin2 on msn yaz have a partner ? n b seriousssssss n whys the reason 4 what eva ya answer is

lol
got to keep ur options open case u and ur lass finish ,thts a back up haha nar man,probs incase shel get her bits out on the cam i rekn haha

[Renegade Master]

Well av never had a lass since i got MSN but if i did i wud just tell them.

[DJ Phase]

Its happened to me before, was txtin me lass and she says 'am tired, goin to sleep' or sumit like that, about 40mins later got a text sayin 'who do you think i am mr. swales' and considering I'm Mr. Murphy I felt pretty pissed off, why couldnt she just tell me she was texting a mate instead of lying? I'm one of those people who doesnt care who she talks to (lad lass or other!) so wouldnt even think twice if sha says am txtin this lad...

Since then a lost trust, and the shit hit the fan really, arguing every week or so about stupid stuff, finished now

hahaha my last names swales, dont think it was me tho lolol

[Linzy]

aye ill admit i do get lads cumin onto me every time i go out on drink, even with a belly which i find canny sick .. lk ova week on boat this lad was tryin it on n linzy give him an ear bashin n these lads asked what was up n was gunna sort him out lol but i dont eva lap the attention up

but thats going out on the drink .. what about over the internet, msn n so on .. that brings alot ov attetion 4 u lads coz lasses rnt scared2 cum onto yaz on msn but when stuff lk that happens the lad keeps it a sercret n ull find sumthing out n theyll lie about it 2 cover it up, 4 it bein 2 protect feelins or wateva

its a nasty ball game wen ova ppl start2 get involved in relationships

yes am ya body guarddd geeeeeeeet up!!! haaha yr like me chell its doesnt intrest me attention like 1 time it wud wen a was bout 14 lol but am happy wiv who am wiv so wen or if a lad trys it on me mostly me mates will jump in and say fuk off!! or al just nicely say sorry av got a hubby tata lol

[*Lisa*C*]

When yous are seeing sum1 and another lad tries to get into you, why do yous not tell ya lad about it? Usually he finds out eventually and it makes you look guilty when it all comes out. Surely there wud be a lot more trust in ya relationship if ya told him things like that. Obviously if ya out with ya pals in the drink then random lads are gona try and get into ya but if its someone they know then you shud tell them i reckon.

Am askin this cos me pal at work read his lasses messages last nite and found out a lad he knows has been textin her, he doesn't think she's been going behind his back but because she never told him he's lost sum of the trust he had in her. Something similar has happened to me before as well so I was wonderin wot the crack was.

well if a lad chats me up or "tries to get into me" i dont tell my lad coz he blames me...like thinks its me leadin them on or sumit....or he just says shut up stop getin a big head

so i figure its best not sed....however i do usually tell him evrything

[Renegade Master]

well if a lad chats me up or "tries to get into me" i dont tell my lad coz he blames me...like thinks its me leadin them on or sumit....or he just says shut up stop getin a big head

so i figure its best not sed....however i do usually tell him evrything
Thats a shame like cos lads are obviously gona approach ya, if it was me i'd want to know but i spose sum ppl think different.

[flipapip82]

Its not me mate av got nee relationships on the go am too sensible haha.

Its me pal he's been goin on about it since 7.30 this mornin and my head is fuckin battered - i need sum sort of explanation quickly!

don't tell the fucker fuck all 1 you will batter his head more 2 take the poor fucker out get him pisst untill he is vunrable 3 find a slapper job sorted he will have so much guilt he will stop thinkin about it ..........:17432:

[Jade*Cue]

well if a lad chats me up or "tries to get into me" i dont tell my lad coz he blames me...like thinks its me leadin them on or sumit....or he just says shut up stop getin a big head

so i figure its best not sed....however i do usually tell him evrything
Wey chances is he's gonna know now thats if he reads this lol

[Renegade Master]

don't tell the fucker fuck all 1 you will batter his head more 2 take the poor fucker out get him pisst untill he is vunrable 3 find a slapper job sorted he will have so much guilt he will stop thinkin about it ..........:17432:
Did anyone evr tell you you cud make a great agony aunt???/

:566:

[CHELL]

relationships r just mad full stop .. theirs always gunna b sumthing goin on them whether its txt messages off this n that person or just daft random stuff

but end ov the day if yaz luv each ova then wat eva problems u hav always get sorted

wud b boring if it was plain sailin all the time lol

[*Lisa*C*]

Wey chances is he's gonna know now thats if he reads this lol

yeaa i know...and im goin2 get wrong 4 sayin that :335: lol i dont think he cums on this forum so mayb not lol

and chell ur right... theres always goin to be sumthing goin on..but if uz love eachother it shudnt realy matter lol

relationships eh haha

[*Sarah-Louise*]

well ive learnt that if ya tell a lad that another lad tried it on with ya it only looks like ya making them jelous and trying to wind him up when really ya just dont wanna hide things so from now on i just keep it hush

[StephMissChief]

well ive learnt that if ya tell a lad that another lad tried it on with ya it only looks like ya making them jelous and trying to wind him up when really ya just dont wanna hide things so from now on i just keep it hush

well if ye lad thinks ye tryin t wind em up n make him jealous then hes a tit, he shuold be grateful tha your honest with him n musnt think much ov ya if he thinks ur like that, i tell my lad everythin n a think he appreciates it cos he has no worries :566:

[Tommo]

my lass tells us now like so i kno everything that goes on now so we can sort the trust thing out
coz we had a similar situation that i dont want to go into again haha

[NIKKI-OV-SEGGA]

Wel I Used 2 Tel Jay Lol

[Omi]

well if ye lad thinks ye tryin t wind em up n make him jealous then hes a tit, he shuold be grateful tha your honest with him n musnt think much ov ya if he thinks ur like that, i tell my lad everythin n a think he appreciates it cos he has no worries :566:

not really steph cos sum lasses are like that n wil tell yi stuff just to make yi jealous just so they no u care if u get wot a meen

attention seekers really

[StephMissChief]

not really steph cos sum lasses are like that n wil tell yi stuff just to make yi jealous just so they no u care if u get wot a meen

attention seekers really

aye a get wot ye mean n defo attention seekers lol, if ye tha insecure ye need t make ye lad jealous t feel loved then ye in t wrong relationship lol - but aye ye get sum daft lasses lyk tha lol, n lads sumtimes haha :7481:

[charlton]

When yous are seeing sum1 and another lad tries to get into you, why do yous not tell ya lad about it? Usually he finds out eventually and it makes you look guilty when it all comes out. Surely there wud be a lot more trust in ya relationship if ya told him things like that. Obviously if ya out with ya pals in the drink then random lads are gona try and get into ya but if its someone they know then you shud tell them i reckon.

Am askin this cos me pal at work read his lasses messages last nite and found out a lad he knows has been textin her, he doesn't think she's been going behind his back but because she never told him he's lost sum of the trust he had in her. Something similar has happened to me before as well so I was wonderin wot the crack was.


lasses arnt to be trusted.... i found that out the hard way

[charlton]

happened 2 me a lot rossi, a dont understand why they dont just tell u, usually they play dumb and deny it tho even tho they know.
it's probs 2 avoid an argument but at the end of the day when u find out of sum1 else its worse coz theres nout worse than ya lass hidin stuff from ya.

my ex used 2 say the txts on her fone from lads were just mates lol what a mug a was.



yip the good old were just mates trick.... i found that one out the hard way aswell

[Linzy]

lads wudnt tell there lass if theyd been gettin chatted up like wey a dont think they wud

[Jen_G]

na wud they fuck, coz theyd b too scared of what we'd do!!

theres no need 2 tell ya lad evry single person thats tried it on with u coz that will just make him paranoid wen hes out n sees them n that. a hate ppl comin up 2 u in th town n that, even wen a neva had a lad it still dus ur hed in

[Linzy]

exactly they wud be scared wot we wud do like we wud either killll the lass or torture him lol

but a suppose if a trust ya lad ya shud be ok if a lass chats him up cos end ov the day hes comin home to youuuuuuuuu

[Deejayy]

i didnt read the rest of the post but it used to piss me off if she told me everything.... me ex lass was dead athletic, was in loads of sports shite n does sport at uni so she's always with 'the footy lads' 'the rugby lads' goin out on nights n wot av ya... she used to tell me if any of them ever tried out n it pissed me off, a got the impression she kept tellin me tho was bcoz i get jealous. I think there is somethings they should tell ya if it goes too deep, but just blatantly tellin ya about any lad that walks their way is a proper wind up.

[кєℓ-¢ мα¢]

i used 2 tell my ex if a lad tried out but he used 2 jus sau stop bein big headed :S n i was lyk nor im tellin ya so ya no man! n he wud jus b lyk yeh wotaeva so ya cnt win eitha way reli...if it was his mate a wud coz thn hes not exactly a gd mate is he n it wud feel dodgy whn i was rnd thm booth! but if it was jus sum random in a bar/club i wudnt.